I’ve enjoyed Elisabeth Elliot’s writing since my junior high years when I first read Through Gates of Splendor. I even grew in my appreciation of her writing after reading the first of two biographies about her written by Ellen Vaughn. She lived an interesting life from an early age that contributed greatly to her writing style.
I was recently told to read Let Me Be a Woman, which is a series of letters from Elisabeth to her daughter, Valerie, before Val’s wedding. The encouragement I reaped from this almost devotional style book was magnified by the fact that I am currently going through a Bible study on womanhood with two ladies from church. I’ve never been a girly-girl or good with fashion, but I’ve never succeeded at being a tom-boy either. I’m a odd duck in the middle who enjoys outdoor activities, but hates anything that looks remotely like an insect. I enjoy feeling pretty now and then, but I despise heels and don’t follow fashion trends.
Where does that leave me? Certainly not questioning my gender identity, God made me a woman and I certainly don’t feel like anything else. But I’m not always considered womanly by worldly or even familial standards. Let Me Be a Woman reminded me that womanhood looks different for each lady, but there are common principles and characteristics set within us by a God who cares deeply about the different creatures He has made.
Though the writing is somewhat academic at times and may not appeal to all modern readers, I appreciate that Elisabeth makes me think as I read. She stretches my vocabulary while feeding me with spiritual insights. I enjoyed reading a chapter or two each night before going to bed. Elisabeth excels at causing the Believer to consider deeply with only a few pages. I don’t always find it wise to gulp down such books. If you are willing to slow down and chew on deep writing that calls for careful, thoughtful application, this book is an opportunity for you to revel in the beauty of God’s intention for us as women.
I would give you one caution: if you struggle with the idea of submission as a wife, or have taken to heart the narrative of oppression that society has fed young woman for decades you will want to throw this book across the room. Consider that God convicts us all at different times in different ways. If you haven’t embraced the highly counter-cultural understanding that woman was made for man and not vice-versa, you won’t be ready for the humility this book requires us to read it with.
But if you’re up for a challenge and some great encouragement along the way, Let Me Be a Woman may be your next good book!
